5 steps to help your aging parents manage their finances

Posted Friday, April 22nd, 2016. Filed Under My Daily Dose

With an aging population not only will people/couples be trying to manage their own financial matters however often that of their aging parent(s).

With diseases like Alzheimers and Dementia, the children of these aging parents need to be aware of their financial matters, desires, and needs long before a parent becomes incoherent.

A question you can ask yourself is: What are some of the signs to look for where you may need to step in and help an aging parent? In the National Post article, FIVE STEPS TO HELP YOUR AGING PARENTS MANAGE THEIR FINANCES, posted April 16, 2016, authors Marc Sherman and Jason Heath state, “Difficulty managing finances will likely creep up gradually, so aging parents may not ask for help, or even realize they need it. Signs such as unopened mail, large cash withdrawals or changes to legal documents may point to problems, but often a parent’s difficulty managing their finances is less obvious.”

Here are five proactive steps Sherman and Heath share that you can take to help your parents manage their finances as they age:

1. Consolidate accounts – If your parents have multiple bank and investment accounts, try to reduce the number of accounts and institutions. They will likely benefit from lower fees and a more integrated approach.

2. Review statements – If they’re comfortable sharing their financial details, your parents might be able to set you up to receive copies of their statements. If their advisers are aware that you are looking over their shoulder, it adds an additional level of oversight. You can also look for signs of financial abuse, such as large transactions.

3. Prepare a financial data organizer – Summarize accounts and advisers, details of any life insurance policies, if they have safety deposit boxes and where to find important legal documents and account passwords.

4. Hire a financial planner – It could be helpful for your parents to know if they are likely to outlive their money. Conversely, it could be helpful for you to know if they may need some level of financial support. Strategically, a financial planner may be able to identify investment, tax or estate strategies to help preserve your parents’ wealth.

5. Review their estate plan – It is important to ensure that wills, powers of attorney, personal directives and similar documents are up-to-date before it is too late. Even if they are in good standing, it is also important to walk through what would actually happen with assets on death, based on beneficiary designations and joint ownership, as not all assets may pass through the estate and be addressed by a will. Measures can also be taken to reduce income tax and probate fees that could be into the tens of thousands for even a modest estate.

Keep in mind that just because someone is losing or has lost mental acuity, it does not mean that they cannot make or contribute to financial decisions. Even someone who has dementia can still express their wishes. Be sure to balance the risk of no oversight with the mistake of overstepping boundaries that are hard to establish when it comes to children getting involved in parents’ finances.

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